1. Understand the 4 Roles of Your Metabolism - You think it’s just in charge of weight loss but it has 3 other roles outside of that, and the more you obsess about weight loss without understanding the other 3, your body will store fat instead of burning it. It’s literally the way your body was wired to protect you. We’re breaking the 4 roles down for FREE here if you want to learn how they work.

  2. Fuel Instead of Starve - Diet culture taught you to eat as little as possible, but in midlife, your metabolism is begging you to fuel it not starve it. If eating 1200 calories drops the first 5 pounds and then your scale is frozen, that’s your metabolism saying it needs more fuel not less.

  3. Add vs. Subtract - Wait, a health coach is telling you not to remove anything from your diet? Listen, I know this isn’t your first attempt at weight loss—you’ve done it more times than you can count. And every diet gives you a new “this food is the root of all evil” rule. And you’re doing these things because you WANT to be healthy, but all those rules are actually disordered thinking about food wrapped up and sold to you as healthy.

    Two things happen when you restrict


    1. You ruin your relationship with food—it’s why you stare at a menu and feel so confused with what the healthy choice even is, and end up saying F-it and ordering the burger and fries, and then feel guilty about it for the next 24 hours.
    2. You are guaranteed to go off the rails sooner rather than later. And what I know about you is you’re not just interested in losing weight for a few weeks, you literally want to never have to solve this problem again.

    Instead, focus on adding in more of the good-for-you things FIRST (see #4) and leave room for the wine, the cookie, the foods that bring you joy!

  4. Balance the hormones that ACTUALLY control exhaustion vs energy. This isn’t just about weight loss—you’re so tired of being tired. Exhaustion isn’t just because of your crazy schedule. In midlife, your hormones are running the energy show. Supporting them doesn’t mean going on HRT—the food you eat (and #5) play a HUGE role in whether you have the energy after you shut your laptop at 5 pm to actually enjoy the life you’re working so hard to build.

  5. Get a baseline for where you’re actually starting from. We hear ALL. THE. TIME. I’m eating healthy but nothing is working. With so much love, eating healthy isn’t a strategy because it means something DIFFERENT to every person. You need to understand what you’re actually consuming. 50% of the women we work with aren’t eating enough, but they don’t realize it because they have zero data!

    It’s not about judgement and restriction—it’s about data and data ultimately gives you FREEDOM.

    Tracking is a TOOL to understand what’s actually happening—you don’t need to track until you’re 80 to keep your results. But the fastest, most accurate way to understand the state of your metabolism and what it needs to thrive is tracking. Hard stop.


We know it can seem like there are so many different health things out there and recommendations for everyone, but if you really, truly want to lose weight without panicking about the bun on your burger or the glass of wine, these are the core things that you need to be focused on.

If you lose weight but have a terrible relationship with food—that’s just disordered eating wrapped in a different package and I know that’s not actually what you want.

Listen, you can actually lose weight in midlife, in your 40s, 50s, yes in perimenopause, without food noise which I know you’re exhausted of whether you realize it or not. Food noise is EVERY belief you have about food that you’ve learned since the moment you saw your mom go on a diet or you went on your first one.

Food freedom is learning that there is literally room for all foods ONCE you rebuild and support the system running the whole show, your metabolism.

I just filmed a FREE 11-minute training breaking down how I lost 30lbs and completely erased food noise WITHOUT a shot đŸ˜±

Watch it here: đŸ“č How I lost 30lbs and ditched the “I’ve been bad” food noise for good while eating pizza 🍕

These 11 minute will completely change the way you think about cravings, willpower and food rules.